When I became I Mom I was so focused on what I would teach my kids.  Hoping I would pass down wisdom and lessons so they could navigate their way through this complicated world. 

What I didn’t realize then but I am so thankful for now is how much they pass on their wisdom to me.

Yes, you read that right! KIDS HAVE WISDOM.  

There is a wonderful unbroken spirited wisdom that comes from youth.  And we as adults should learn to tap into that more often.

Case in point, last year my teenage son wanted to re-do his kid room.  He had outgrown his superhero-colored room and was ready to have a “teen” room.  I was all for it.  Secretly I was a little nervous about what his design “aesthetic” would be, but I have always allowed them to be who they are, let them chart their own path.  So, he started designing and I crossed my fingers.​

2.  Without hesitation, he asked for help.  Painting over crimson red superhero color walls takes layer upon layer of primer and new paint.  Let’s just say by the 2nd coat called in reinforcements. No shame, no I can do this myself bravado, no pause to self-doubt the need for help.  

3.  Most importantly, he willingly welcomed change.  And, with excitement, he jumped into the unknown - how to design a room, how to paint, what his teen self would like, etc.  Wish I had that untethered enthusiasm for what’s to come.  
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I find myself reflecting on this bedroom makeover often.   Every time I walk into his room I’m reminded of his youthful wisdom and how I could welcome and invite change more willingly.   

Want to see what inspires this young teenage boy? Here are his self-selected “affirmations” for your inspiration: 

Have you learned lessons from your kids?  I would love to hear about it in the comments.  My life could use all the youthful wisdom it can find. 

Here's to finding inspiration from all sources, young and old! 
~ Cher